Gf won’t move out of my house, need advice.
I am 20 years old and just bought my first house completely on my own financially. Mortgage is in my name electric bill everything is paid by me with the exception of groceries, that my girlfriend who moved in with me pays for.
I want her to move out, I do not enjoy living with her and would rather be here by myself. I brought it up last week and she told me she wouldn’t leave and we would fix this.
I just want to live alone, I’m more of a bachelor type person to begin with, and I’m not ready to settle down just yet.
How do I get her to understand this without being a complete Asshole?
我今年20岁，靠自己挣了点钱，贷款买了一个房子，这个房子里面所有开支都是我出的，除了我女友搬进来的时候出了一些杂货的钱。
我想让他搬出去，我想享受一个人的生活，我上周把这事提出来了，但是她不想离开...。
我只是想一个人住，我也没有想要安定下来，更想过一个独居生活。
我要怎么做才能让她明白，同时不会让她觉得我是个混蛋？