My wife of 10 years confessed to me last night that she will always love her late husband more
My wife (39F) and I (40M) have been married for 10 years, and have 3 kids. This is my wife’s second marriage, she married her first husband at 25, but he sadly passed away a few months later.
我的妻子（39）和我（40）结婚10年了，育有3个孩子。这是我妻子的第二次婚姻，她在25岁时嫁给了她的第一任丈夫，但几个月后他不幸去世了。
Last night, we were having a discussion about first loves and exes and marriage. We were both drunk and extra emotional. My wife was somehow even more drunk than me, and was slurring her words. Well as we were getting all emotional, she was talking about her late husband, saying she’ll always love him the most, no matter what. As she was saying this, she also had a tear in her eye. We both went to sleep shortly after.
昨晚，我们在讨论初恋、前任和婚姻。我们都喝醉了，情绪异常激动。不知怎么的，我妻子比我还醉，口齿不清。就在我们情绪激动的时候，她谈到了她已故的丈夫，说无论怎样，她都会永远最爱他。她说这话的时候，眼里也含着泪水。不久之后我们都睡着了。
Well come morning, it seems like my wife has forgotten what she said last night. Which is understandable because she was blackout drunk. But I still remember it, and it’s like a bullet has pierced my heart.
早醒来后，我妻子好像忘了昨晚说的话。这是可以理解的，因为她喝醉了。但我仍然记得，就像一颗子弹刺穿了我的心。
I have no complaints about my wife, we have an amazing family. But it just hurts me that my partner of 10 years doesn’t put me first in her love for me. Would I be wrong in asking for an divorce?
我对我的妻子没有任何抱怨，我们有一个了不起的家庭。但是，我结婚10年的伴侣没有把我放在她对我的爱的第一位，这让我很伤心。我要求离婚会错吗？