1、你真正很多年都在做的事，不是靠激情，不是靠你听别人劝告的坚持，而是你自己日积月累地喜欢和投入。
对人，对外语学习都是一个道理。what you really have been doing for many years, not by passion, not by your insistence on following others force, but by your own love and investment.It is the same for people and for foreign language learning.
2、往后余生，谁能激发我好的一面，比如善良，正向思考，沉静这些品质，我就多和ta保持联系。I will keep in touch with them more,who can inspire my good side, such as kindness, positive thinking, inner peace these qualities, for the rest of my life.
3、你没有逃离任何人，你向前的每一步，都是在逃离糟糕的，你自己都唾弃的自己。You are not running away from anyone, every step you take forward, is running away from the worse you.Be a better you.
4、什么是勇气呢？勇气不是你一开始就很牛。我更欣赏的勇气是，明明起点很差，一点点看自己爬上来,变美、变自信、变有钱，变得让周围人觉得陌生。每一点蜕变，只有他们心里清楚自己是怎么过来的。What is courage? Courage is not that you are excellent at the beginning. The courage I appreciate more is that the original version is very poor, a little bit to see yourself climb up and up. Become more beautiful, become more confidence, become richer, even become unfamiliar to the people around them, every bit of transformation, only they know how to get there.
5、你要学会脸上云淡风轻，谁也不知道你的底牌是什么，谁也不知道你的牙咬得有多紧。你可以笑得肆无忌惮，但你哭的时候只能无声落泪。You have to learn to avoid emotional , no one knows what your card is, no one knows how tough feelings you are suffering. You can laugh recklessly, but when you cry, you can only cry silently.
6、如果真苦，你没有时间喊出来。如果真惨，你没有时间觉得丢脸。因为承受得还不够，所以你才有时间抱怨。 If it's bitter, you don't have time to shout it out. If it's bad, you don't have time to be ashamed. Because it's not enough, so you have time to complain.
7、到了一定年纪你就会发现，再重要的人让你失望多了，也变得不再重要了。失望到一定程度后，反而会开出一朵花来，那朵花的名字叫“无所谓”。When you reach a certain age, you will find that the most important people let you down much and become no longer important. Disappointment to a certain extent, but will emerge a flower, the flower's name is "whatever."
8、你到了学会拒绝的别人的时候，学会以牙还牙，当场反击，他们反而会尊重你，甚至敬畏你。你最终会相信那句话：无情一点，并没有错。When you learn to reject others, learn to retaliate, fight back on the spot, they will respect you and even Revere you. You will eventually believe that there is nothing wrong with being ruthless.
9、有些话说或者不说，都是伤害，有些人留或者不留都会离开，如果我放弃说话，不是因为我认输，而是我懂了。Some words speak out or not , both are harm.Some people stay or not . if I give up speaking, not because I was defeated, but I understand.
祝大元和所有的读者朋友快乐，不止生日